14 Tips to Achieve Female Orgasm | Vaginal Orgasm

14 Secret Tips to Achieve Female Orgasm
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Many female ask questions from sex therapist about female orgasm or vaginal orgasm.  In this article, we will uncover all the secrets and most helpful tips to make a female orgasm. This article is especially for those whose wives/partners do not have female orgasm or do not get vaginal discharge and leave interest in having sex.

Is sex is about the man’s pleasure only?

No! The sexual pleasure in not for men only but it is more in females. Women also feel sexual pleasure by having orgasm or vaginal discharge. It is not only vaginal penetration that causes feeling of pleasure, but a foreplay before sex is also pleasurable for females. Sometimes it is necessary to have a foreplay of half an hour to achieve optimum orgasm.

Can all women orgasm?

Many people ask from a sex therapist or start surfing on the internet about woman orgasm. Their question is “can all women orgasm?” Yes! Every women is capable of getting orgasm. There are some issue in few women but such cases are rare may be due to some external factors. If a women never had an orgasm before does not mean that she cannot have in future. She might need to be addressed what is currently blocking her from getting orgasm.

In some cases, women struggle to have orgasms. The issue may be psychological or physical. There are treatments, therapies, and interventions that may help them to get orgasm. Some postmenopausal women may find they have a diminished desire for sex because of lack of getting their vagina wet during foreplay. Such cases may be referred to sex therapist.  

What female orgasm feels like? What actually feels like to have an orgasm?

To describe an indescribable is much difficult but we will try to let you that that how can you know that you have female orgasm or not? It feels like intense energy in a female’s body, mainly concentrated in her genitals but also spreading to other parts of the body. It also feels hot with incredibly pleasurable energy. When that energy reaches its orgasmic peak, pelvic floor muscles start to contract. These muscle contractions in genital area feel really amazing. At that point, there are also other physical changes in body like; breath becomes fast, heartbeat intensifies, and there might be flushing on her face chest etc.  After few seconds or minutes, depending how intense the orgasm is, everything starts to returns back to normal. The pelvic floor contractions stop and heartbeat becomes normalize.

How female orgasm occurs?

Female orgasm occurs in four phases: The first phase is excitement that is a state of arousal or desire. This phase involves your body beginning to get ready for sex. Second is plateau, during this phase, sexual tension builds even more. Your heart rate and blood pressure continue to increase. In third phase, you reach at peak of orgasm. During orgasm, your vagina, uterus, pelvic floor muscles, contract rhythmically. In last phase, everything starts to return to normal.  Heart rate, blood pressure, and breathing slow down to a more normal rate after the game is over. 

14 Secret Tips to Achieve a Female Orgasm | Vaginal Orgasm

Achieving a female orgasm or vaginal orgasm is desire of every women. Mostly people know how to stimulate their partners but few are confused and fail to satisfy their partner. To arouse a woman to orgasm has little to do with pornographic skills. Many key factors are involved in arousing female to an orgasm. On TV screens and in movies, women always seem to enjoy peak of orgasms during intercourse with their partners but is not real as shown in the scenes. In real sex, about one-third of women do not have orgasmic during intercourse because of many factors. Her sex partner can address lack of orgasm for a woman in many ways.

Most women need help from sex-partners or seek other solutions like use of sex toys to stimulate themselves to have an orgasm.  After reading out this article, you will be able to have orgasm of your partner. Here are the secret ways to achieve a female orgasm.

Do not opt an odd timing

Before going to have a sexual activity, plan your activity. If your partner is awaking until late night and she is going to have a sleep. Do not insist her to go according to your desire. Let her sleep at that time. Be prepared for sexual activity. Plan to watch a romantic movie together in free time and make her ready for sexual activity mentally. Don’t insist during odd timing like; when is getting ready for office or work, or she is busy in cooking, or when is hungry or thirsty or fatigued. Be assure that your partner is well. She is not suffering from any illness or flue.

Set the mood before foreplay

Mood of you partner is most important factor to have her orgasm in sexual activity. Before going for sexual activity, set the mood of your partner. Make sure she in not upset mentally. Engage her in conversations. Share romantic feelings to please her mood.  Sit close to her. Discuss thing according to her personal preferences. Switch off main lights of the room and lit a candle. Spray your room with scent according the choice of your wife/partner. If she like rose fragrance, keep fresh roses in the room for fragrance. Sit on a comfort place like a sofa or couch.

Be sure your partner is ready

Once you have set the mood of your partner, let her know that they are going to enjoy a pleasurable sexual intercourse tonight. Because, for many women, having an orgasm has a lot to do with their body, brain, and emotions. Arousing her directly by sexual organs can be failure to have a female orgasm. So, before you get to touch in gentiles make romantic compliments. Hold her hand, ley her head into your lap, fingering into her hair, touch her body beneath the dress. Such activities will make her ready for sex and make her dress off. Remove her shirt first and then trouser and start engaging with her.

 Spend more time on foreplay

When you have made your partner ready for sexual activity and she gives you a go signal. Do not jump towards direct orgasm. Some women stimulate emotionally and some need plenty of physical stimulation to become aroused. Physical stimulation involves sexy talks, touching, kissing, fingering, and eventually penetration. The initial steps made for arousing stimulation are known as foreplay.

Men have external sexual organ and stimulate very quickly but on the other hand females have hidden sexual organ like G spot, vaginal canal, E spot and are more reserved compared to male. So they need more time for stimulation. Sometimes arousing a female can take up to 40 minutes or an hour. So, never hurry towards penetration but keep yourself cool, and make a long foreplay to make her sexually aroused.  

A foreplay should be in a sequence and you should be aware that what your partner like during foreplay. If you are a smoker, your partner may feel uneasy when you make a lip kiss. Here are the steps to make a better and long foreplay to arouse an orgasm of female.

Stimulate her mentally

Mental stimulation is equally important is sex. A sexy comment or hint can transmit your intentions to her and she starts getting prepared mentally. As mentioned above, create a loving and sensuous atmosphere. Make sure there in no noise interference or sound of street footsteps.

Use a tender touch on her body

Touching on Every square inch of the body of a female can make her ready to have a sexual intercourse.  Many men do kissing on neck and immediately move towards penetration. It is not what a female wants. Women need a long foreplay. So keep her engaging in touching her body, roaming your hand on her back, arms, and on legs.

Focus on sensitive parts

Some body parts are more sensitive than others are.  Thin skin and blood vessels close to the surface of neck act as highly responsive touch pads. Keep kissing on neck to make her stimulate. Many females love neck kissing and ask their partners to kiss on neck.

Continue you romance

Keep the steady pace in foreplay and keep on kissing on her whole body. You will feel that your partner clearly moving toward orgasm. Brush your lips on her chest and nipples. Give a soft touch from neck to jaw. Keep on soft biting. Take her earlobe into your lips.

Do not talk excessively during foreplay

Do not talk unnecessary during foreplay because it can lose the arousing normal to back position. Never discuss jobs or study issue during foreplay. You can share how are you enjoying or butter her up like you are much sexy and your body is so soft.

Fondle her breasts to stimulate sexually

One of the most sensitive organ of a females’ upper body is her breast. Slowly move on to fondling her breasts that is powerful erogenous zone. Many females stimulate and have organism during kissing nipples and moving lips on breast.

Don’t race toward quick orgasm.

Every women loves orgasm. Do not move towards penis penetration until your partner is ready and her vagina is wet or lubricated naturally. A woman can have more than one orgasm during intercourse. So do not leave her until she is satisfied. If you have no control on yourself and suffering a premature ejaculation, keep putting on your underwear and do not remove until vagina is wet and your partner asks to penetrate. You can pinch top of your penis to make a delay. Remember that the goal of sex is pleasure, and orgasm is one kind of pleasure that is end of all game.  Move slowly and don’t focus on the end game.

Move toward vaginal Orgasm

Some women have orgasm when you go towards erogenous zone stimulation. Spending nearly half an hour on non-genital body parts will make a woman’s vagina and she can have a better chance to achieve optimum orgasm pleasure. After foreplay with non-genital part, make a move towards genital pats that is vagina to make vaginal orgasm.  Here are few tips to enjoy a foreplay with vaginal parts to have the woman orgasm.

Like sensitive parts on upper body, There are few more sensitive parts inside vagina that cause stimulation to peak and eventually making vaginal orgasm.

The clitoris:  Many women require external clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm. This tiny organ contains a high concentration of nerve endings. It is located near the top of the vulva and can be seen in you uncover skin over it to see that is known as clitoral hood. It is inside the vaginal lips. When a female stimulates, the clitoris will become erect and big in size. Vibrating it with finger can arouse a female in few minutes.

The G-spot: The location of this orgasmic area is inside the vagina. It is a bundle of nerve endings about two inches up from the pubic bone on the inner, upper wall of the vagina. To feel this spot, place your finger inside the vagina gently and curl your finger upward with palm facing up. Some women love G-spot stimulation. Do not do this practice for a long time because it causes instant vaginal discharge in some female and game will be over. During stimulation, this spot gets bigger in size. 

The E-spot: When you insert your finger deeper than g spot, you reach at E-spot. This is the final point where a woman has orgasms. Many women do fingering to self-stimulate or make use of sex toys.

The C-spot: The end of the vagina is C-stop. Few men reach at this stop because it is too deep and a finger cannot reach to this point. This is the most sensitive part and every touch on C-spot is like sparks.

Note: Make sure you cut your nails and file them perfectly before you put finger inside the vagina. The inner canal is very soft and sensitive and your nail can make a cut or infection. When you are stimulating with finger, make sure that females prefer soft and slow motion. Being harsh or fast moving can make a female uncomfortable. 

Lube up to achieve female orgasm

Use of lubricant makes genitals more erotically sensitive, so it helps women have orgasms. Women experiencing post-menopausal vaginal dryness need lubrication of vaginal canal.  Lubes include any product purchased from drug store, oil, cream or it can be saliva. Use of lubes can make her comfortable.

Final move towards vaginal penetration

If you have done all the stimulation activities, now move on towards vaginal penetration with a penis. Keep one thing in your mind during vaginal penetration that is correct sex position. Prefer that position which your partner likes and feel comfortable. Try to keep angle of your penis in such a way that it hit continue sly G-spot. To enjoy full penetration and access to C-spot, place a pillow or wedge under her hips. Doggy style and cowgirl are also favorite sex positions for women.

The more sexual position that you try to choose comfortable one for your partner are woman on top, rear entry and sitting positions. These positions can provide maximum stimulation that can lead towards pleasurable orgasm. 

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